My grandmother’s diary,1946

The trip to Virginia yielded this jewel, my grandmother’s diary from 1946. This was the year she married my grandfather, Robert Valentine. She’s pretty consistent the first 6 months of the year, including the months leading up to the marriage (April 6) and for a few months afterwards.

I’ve begun the work of transcribing it and it’s been an awesome experience to get to know her a little bit better through the process. By the time I was old enough to remember Grandma, she was already in a lot of pain from a life of adventure.

See the transcription of Margaret’s Diary

Margaret Hickey, Diary 1946

My grandmother’s diary, includes the year she married my grandfather. via Instagram

Focus on Family Names

Elder Russell M. Nelson taught,

“Here, on this side of the veil, there are limitations of available time and temples. This means that choosing to identify and perform ordinances for our own kindred should receive our highest priority. The Spirit of Elijah will inspire individual members of the Church to link their generations, rather than submit lists of people or popular personalities to whom they are unrelated.”

“The Spirit of Elijah”
April 1994 General Conference

Vicarious Temple Work

Several years ago Elder Howard W. Hunter said:

“Does it seem reasonable that persons who have lived upon the earth and died without the opportunity of baptism should be deprived throughout eternity? Is there anything unreasonable about the living performing the baptisms for the dead? Perhaps the greatest example of vicarious work for the dead is the Master himself. He gave his life as a vicarious atonement, that all who die shall live again and have life everlasting. He did for us what we could not do for ourselves. In a similar way we can perform ordinances for those who did not have the opportunity to do them in lifetime.”

Quoted by Russell M. Nelson,
October 1994 General Conference

Temple and Family History are Christlike Activities

On the nature of the work we do take family names to the temple, Boyd K. Packer said,

“Now, there are those who scoff at the idea of vicarious ordinances performed for the salvation of souls. They think it all to be very strange.

No thinking Christian should be surprised at such a doctrine. Was not the sacrifice of Christ a vicarious offering for and in behalf of all mankind? The very Atonement was wrought vicariously.

The Lord did for us what we could not do for ourselves. Is it not Christlike for us to perform in the temples ordinances for and in behalf of those who cannot do them for themselves?”

“Covenants”
April 1987 General Conference

“Write Them Down”

Henry B. Eyring shared the following story about journal keeping,

“When our children were very small, I started to write down a few things about what happened every day. Let me tell you how that got started. I came home late from a Church assignment. It was after dark. My father-in-law, who lived near us, surprised me as I walked toward the front door of my house. He was carrying a load of pipes over his shoulder, walking very fast and dressed in his work clothes. I knew that he had been building a system to pump water from a stream below us up to our property.

“He smiled, spoke softly, and then rushed past me into the darkness to go on with his work. I took a few steps toward the house, thinking of what he was doing for us, and just as I got to the door, I heard in my mind—not in my own voice—these words: “I’m not giving you these experiences for yourself. Write them down.”

“I went inside. I didn’t go to bed. Although I was tired, I took out some paper and began to write. And as I did, I understood the message I had heard in my mind. I was supposed to record for my children to read, someday in the future, how I had seen the hand of God blessing our family. Grandpa didn’t have to do what he was doing for us. He could have had someone else do it or not have done it at all. But he was serving us, his family, in the way covenant disciples of Jesus Christ always do. I knew that was true. And so I wrote it down, so that my children could have the memory someday when they would need it.”

“O Remember, Remember”
General Conference, October 2007

Temple Work and Family History A Protecting and Refining Power

President Boyd K. Packer of the Quorum of the Twelve taught us about how temple work and family history can bless our life,

“No work is more of a protection to this Church than temple work and the family history research that supports it. No work is more spiritually refining. No work we do gives us more power. No work requires a higher standard of righteousness.”

President Boyd K. Packer
“The Holy Temple,” Ensign, Oct. 2010, 35

Temple Work More Meaningful When Done For Family

President Monson illustrated how temple work and family history work go together,

“In my own family, some of our most sacred and treasured experiences have occurred when we have joined together in the temple to perform sealing ordinances for our deceased
ancestors. . . . The all-important and crowning blessings of membership in the Church are those blessings which we receive in the temples of God.”

President Thomas S. Monson
In Conference Report, Apr. 2011, 87; or Ensign, May 2011, 93