President Hinckley counseled us to focus on virtues over vice,

I am satisfied that if we would look for the virtues in one another and not the vices, there would be much more of happiness in the homes of our people. There would be far less of divorce, much less of infidelity, much less of anger and rancor and quarreling. There would be more of forgiveness, more of love, more of peace, more of happiness. This is as the Lord would have it.

Gordon B. Hinckley,
“Living Worthy of the Girl You Will Someday Marry”
April 1998 General Conference